Regret Learning About Manifesting? You’re Not Alone—Here’s the Truth


If you’ve ever found yourself frustrated, burned out, or overwhelmed by doubts on this journey, I want you to know something: you’re not broken, and you’re not doing it wrong.


Dear Reader,

Today, let’s talk about something I know many of you wrestle with—manifesting. You started learning how to do it to get some peace, love, money, but what you found instead is frustration and anxiety, right? Some even say that they wish they never found about manifesting in the first place…

Nothing’s wrong with you and all your feelings are valid. In fact, the only thing wrong is that you think something’s wrong with you. Let’s unravel that together today.


Why Manifesting Feels So Hard

Does this sound familiar?

  • You’re trying every technique under the sun, but nothing seems to work.
  • You’re exhausted by the constant effort, affirmations, visualizations—and all you’re left with is doubt.
  • You’re watching others manifest their dreams while you’re stuck feeling like it’s never going to happen for you.

First, let me say: your feelings are valid.

Manifesting should feel joyful and aligned, not heavy and draining. If it feels hard, there’s a reason—one that’s deeply tied to the resistance you’re unknowingly carrying.

But here’s the good news: this resistance isn’t here to stop you. It’s here to guide you.

Let me share the most powerful truth I’ve learned: manifesting isn’t about the techniques you use.

It’s about who you are being. Techniques don’t manifest anything—they’re just permission slips to step into your natural creative power.

The anxiety and doubt you feel? It’s not a sign to give up—it’s valuable feedback, a signal that something’s out of alignment. And alignment starts with trust: trust in yourself, in your desires, and in the process.


One Simple Shift to​
Find Peace in the Process

When I first started, I was stuck in constant “doing” mode—affirming, visualizing, chasing the perfect method.

It only made it feel performative. Fear started to appear: if I stop for one day, I will not get my manifestation…

It wasn’t until I learned to simply be present that things started to change. Here’s the exercise I use anytime doubt or frustration creeps in:

  1. Pause and feel. Locate the tension or resistance in your body. Don’t fight it—just allow yourself to feel it fully.
What we resist, persists.
  1. Shift your focus to your breath. Breathe deeply and anchor yourself in the present moment. Repeat to yourself: “I am. I am.” Focus on your awareness of being.

This simple exercise brings you back to your core—your I AM—the awareness that creates your world. Manifesting doesn’t happen in the past or the future. It happens now.

To dive deeper into this topic, I’ve created a new video that breaks down exactly why manifesting feels so hard and how to find peace with the process. You’ll walk away with practical solutions to lower anxiety and finally align with what you truly want.

>> Let this be the week you stop trying so hard and start trusting more (video)


Your Desires Are For You

One last thing: your journey is uniquely yours. Everyone’s path looks different, and that’s okay. What you want is meant for you—it’s already yours.

Your only job is to release the resistance, trust in the process, and allow the bridge to unfold.

It’s all just information. A gift of feedback.

So listen, accept, and grow.

You are whole as you are.


With Love,

Marta

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